As I compared pictures of Norah from last year to this year, I realized something- my little baby girl is not a little baby anymore! Where did that time go? It feels like yesterday I was carrying her everywhere with me, propping her up with pillows so she could practice sitting, spoon feeding her pureed foods, and (I miss this the most) swaddling her and rocking her to sleep.
Honestly- where did that time go?
In what seems like a blur of time, Norah now insists on doing everything on her own. Her independence in one year astonishes me!! Bedtime now consists of HER reading to US at least 3 stories (or the same story 3 times..). She only wants to use a fork at dinner (a spoon is so last year), even if it takes an hour to eat 15 peas. She has to put her boots on with no help, brush her hair with no help (and all of ours-including the dogs), and go up and down the stairs with no help!
Um hello…am I not needed anymore?
The good news is- she has replaced all of the joys that she brought to us as a baby with new, different joys! She talks a mile a minute- and her little voice is so adorable! She has gone from unpronounceable words to full sentences in the blink of an eye! Always asking us questions and imitating our phrases.
She also is mimicking our parenting actions. I saw her scold Josh with her little pointy finger one day (it is hard not to laugh at those moments) and she now does her complete bedtime routine for her little dolly each night (changing diaper, doing her hair, reading stories, putting on bedtime music)- so cute!
As she continues to change, so do Josh and I as parents. Trying to evolve as she does. We are definitely in uncharted territory right now. Just as we became “baby experts”, Norah transitioned into an entire different realm: Toddlerhood.
This is an entire new world to us. For example, we now have to watch what we say at all times (you never realize how much you swear until a child repeats your every word)! We also have started to hide eating certain snacks (ie chocolate, popcorn) because let’s face it- kids always want to eat what we are eating! (admit it parents- we aren’t the only ones hiding the junkfood!)
and can we talk about temper tantrums for a moment? WOW. I love my daughter with all my heart, even when her little face turns red and her tiny lungs are screeching at me. Most of these outbursts are due to the difficulty in communicating at that age. She was an early talker so thankfully those tantrums will be short-lived.
But then there is the power struggle tantrum. Battle of the family- Parents vs kid. Who will give in first! These are the tough tantrums. The ones where Josh and I have to help each other to not throw in the towel! Survival of the fittest. (I fear these will last a lifetime…..)
There are so many other elements of toddlerhood to expand on, but I think the most important highlight of this stage is the bond we have with Norah and how our love grows each day.
Next up- potty training…. until next time, T. xx